Getting Started With Therapy
You’ve done your homework and settled on a therapist. After much anticipation, the day of your first treatment session has arrived. Your emotions are all over the place, from excitement to worry to sighing relief. The problem is that they all seem to arise at once, making it hard to determine which emotion is dominant. When do we get a chance to talk? Where should I start? What do I say?
You might have addressed some of these concerns in the message you sent when you booked an appointment with the psychotherapist. However, most people are left with questions and are unsure how to prepare for what lies ahead. When you start therapy, it’s not only you who experiences changes. Your environment changes, too.
Psychotherapy not only affects you on the inside but also impacts the outside world, including social and professional interactions. Since each therapeutic journey is unique and personal, there is no foolproof way to prepare for this transition.
First Things to Know About Therapy
To some extent, your first session with the therapist will mirror a visit to the doctor. When you arrive, you fill out some paperwork, then wait to be called into the office. If you’re seeing a therapist who works from an at-home office, you should expect a more relaxed atmosphere. You’ll likely have some paperwork to complete while you wait, such as:
- HIPAA Notice of Privacy Practices
- Insurance coverage and payment arrangements
- Current medications and medical history
- Symptom-specific questionnaire
- Release of Information forms
- Understanding the Therapist-Patient Contract
If you prefer to discuss your responses with your therapist in person, you are generally not required to complete the symptom questionnaire in writing.
First Day of Therapy
Your therapist’s approach to your first session will differ from subsequent sessions. You and your therapist will establish rapport during the first session and discuss the next steps. In the future, your visits will serve a more therapeutic purpose. You may choose to delve deeper into a particular symptom or problem, or explore issues or trauma that arise in sessions.
Don’t expect your problems to end after just one session. You will likely need to commit to a longer course of treatment. The goal of therapy should be to provide long-term benefits, not just temporary relief.
Your therapist may pose the following questions during your first session:
- Why did you decide to seek help through talk therapy?
- Where do you think you’re falling short?
- What are your symptoms?
A few inquiries into your background will cover topics such as your upbringing, schooling, and relationships, both romantic and platonic. You and your therapist should also agree on a timeline for treatment, the approach you will take, and the terms of payment and confidentiality.
Time Required for Therapy
Although you may be curious about how long it will take until you start to “feel better,” there is, unfortunately, no easy answer. Many insurance policies only pay for a certain number of sessions per year, so you may need to consider that and work out a payment plan with your therapist.
Also, some therapists do not accept insurance. In this case, you must pay the therapist directly and request reimbursement from your insurance plan or bear the cost yourself.
Methods of Treatment
Therapists use a wide range of methods that can aid in managing mental health problems, the resolution of personal concerns, and the development of positive new habits. You may feel more prepared for your therapy sessions if you know what methods your therapist intends to utilize. Some common types of therapy include:
- Person-centered treatment: therapy that focuses on the client; an interpersonal kind of psychotherapy that focuses on expressing positive, unconditional esteem for the individual.
- Behavior or cognitive therapy: emphasizes the importance of establishing links between one’s mental, emotional, and physical states.
- Existential therapy: instead of treating symptoms, this therapy focuses on individuals’ free choice and self-determination.
- Gestalt therapy: focuses on the present moment and current challenges in patients’ lives instead of dwelling on the past.
- Psychoanalytic or psychodynamic therapy: aims to help patients face, understand, and change the psychological dynamics contributing to their emotional distress.
Some Things to Expect When You Start Therapy
It is common for those in psychotherapy to commit an hour weekly to discussing their feelings and problems in sessions. Allowing yourself this time and space might help you reflect on your life and gain insight into the experiences that have molded you. A lasting therapy connection is possible if you and your therapist can form a solid alliance. The longer you commit to psychotherapy, the more you’ll get to flex that ‘seeing beyond’ muscle, a skill that will serve you well even after your sessions.
You Become Caught in Your Thoughts More Often
It’s usual for people in therapy to start thinking more profoundly and more deeply about themselves and their world. Having a trained expert prompt you with open-ended questions is a great way to encourage introspection and growth. It may cause you to re-think your interactions with others and the choices you make. Do not be alarmed if, after engaging your thinking brain, you find yourself overthinking things sometimes. This is part of the process and nothing to be concerned about.
People in Your Life May Push Back Against the New You
When people first begin treatment, they are often unprepared for its profound impact on their interpersonal connections. You may have spent a good portion of your life adjusting your behavior, thoughts, and emotions to fit into specific relationship puzzles. All that changes when you begin therapy. You’ll be going through a period of tremendous development and transformation, and the way you relate to others may change as you get better at knowing and meeting your own needs.
Some people in your life may resist these changes in you. That can be discouraging, but preparing ahead of time will help you have patience as they adjust to the new you. Remember, it is not your job to force people to accept you as you are. You can try to play a role for them, but how others react to you will ultimately be determined by their life experiences, emotional maturity, and many other factors outside of your control.
You May Start Recognizing Toxic Tendencies
It should be no surprise that peoples’ responses and actions toward others depend on their upbringing and taught behaviors, some of which may be more beneficial than others. During therapy, you may become aware of destructive patterns passed down to you through the generations. Once you give them a name, you can take steps to alter them, hopefully making them more manageable for future generations.
You Broaden Your Range of Feelings
Recognizing and giving words to one’s feelings is a fundamental step in the therapeutic process. Most psychotherapists, regardless of their method or style, can assist you in learning to put words to your emotions. Repeatedly doing so will help you develop a more robust emotional toolkit.
You May Find Yourself with More Questions than Answers
It’s possible that as you go into your past and discover the things that made you into the person you are now, you’ll find that you have more questions than answers. It’s good to wonder how your experiences have influenced you up to this point, but it’s important to remember that you don’t have to rush to find the answers. In fact, it’s healthy to take your time with some questions.
Takeaway
By starting the therapy process, you’ve already proven your dedication to learning more about who you are. One’s first treatment session is often the beginning of a journey toward improved mental and physical health and increased resilience.
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Author Bio: Vincenzo Sinisi SAPA, IPA, HPCSA, is a clinical psychologist, psychoanalyst, group analyst, and the founder of TherapyRoute.com an excellent resource for finding great nearby therapists worldwide.
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