The Way Back from Mental Illness: 6 Reasons Why You Should Tell Your Story of Hope and Recovery

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“To be a person is to have a story to tell.” – Isak Dinesen

Storytelling is one of the oldest art forms practiced by humans. Stories entertain and teach. They reflect on experience and create community. Stories about recovery also have the power to heal.

What is a Story of Hope and Recovery?

Recovery in mental hecampfire ridge-top-farm-glampingalth is not always well understood. We do our best to explain it in the Life After Diagnosis section of this website. Some people diagnosed with a serious mental health condition, such as schizophrenia, fully recover in the medical sense of the term. But for most people living with mental illness being in recovery is a process of managing the illness and its effects over time and “reclaiming (one’s) right to a safe, dignified, and personally meaningful and gratifying life in the community” (Dr. Larry Davidson, Director, Yale Program for Recovery & Community Health).

This concept of “being in” recovery is best illustrated through personal stories of people and their loved ones coping with the many challenges of mental illness in order to have the best life possible.

“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.” – Maya Angelou

Why You Should Tell Your Story of Hope and Recovery…

  1. Your story is important. Serious mental illness has a deep and lasting impact on the people it touches. For many, it is the defining experience of their lives. It would be unbearable to think that these experiences are without meaning. Every story of mental illness and recovery is profoundly important – to the people who have lived it and all humanity.
  2. Sharing your story makes recovery real. It’s not a story of recovery until you tell someone else. Until that happens, it is just a hope inside you. Once you tell someone, you have made a declaration to another human being: I or my loved one faced mental illness and this is how we coped.
  3. Sharing your story helps you find your voice. Writing about a difficult period in your life can help you organize the chaos of past events in the structure of a story with a beginning, middle and end, and a moral you can learn from. It allows you to think about the events of your life and express them in a way that makes sense to other people and ultimately to you yourself.
  4. Sharing your story makes you stronger. Studies have shown that sharing difficult experiences with others results in improved health and well-being. Sharing these experiences in story form helps establish supportive bonds with other people. It also re-affirms positive values and reinforces lessons learned from life experiences.
  5. Sharing your story helps other people. Your story of hope and recovery may be someone else’s saving light – a message that they are not alone and their situation is far from hopeless. Our own emotional resilience and capacity to cope are strengthened when we realize we have the wisdom and strength to help other people.
  6. Sharing your story builds community. Shared storytelling is one of the foundations of civilization. Ancient myths are stories early humans told around a fire before we had science and religion. We still build community and create connections by sharing stories – especially those involving loss and hope.

Do you or a loved one have a story of mental health recovery that you would like to share? Find out how to share your story with our online community:

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Jay Boll, Editor in Chief www.rtor.org

Jay Boll, LMSW, writes about mental health from dual perspectives: as a professional with more than thirty-five years of experience working with homeless youth and adults with mental illness, and as a family member who has witnessed the impact of mental illness up close and personal.
 
There are many sides to mental health recovery. Jay’s blog takes The Family Side.
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Jay Boll, Editor in Chief www.rtor.org

Jay Boll, LMSW, writes about mental health from dual perspectives: as a professional with more than thirty-five years of experience working with homeless youth and adults with mental illness, and as a family member who has witnessed the impact of mental illness up close and personal.   There are many sides to mental health recovery. Jay’s blog takes The Family Side.

4 thoughts on “The Way Back from Mental Illness: 6 Reasons Why You Should Tell Your Story of Hope and Recovery

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    Carol LaChapelle says:

    I wrote my book, Finding Your Voice, Telling Your Stories: 167 Ways To Tell Your Life Stories (Marion Street Press 2008), to help people write their personal stories, whether for themselves in personal journals; as family histories; or to publish. It is available in bookstores, on Amazon, and in many public libraries throughout the U.S. and Canada.

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